What would life without some mystery? And it is full of them, no doubt. But there are some thing, some shadows that can have real relation with our ego. Others are external, physical, nothing of yourself involved.
Coming back to those close to our own grounds, those that could change our own adjectives, the idea we or others could have about us, well, you know… there shouldn’t be any!
In the end, everything is always the same: you need control. Only externals, things that could happen without you, are allowed to be not so clear. The farthest, the less important.
In the end, we all try to protect ourselves. Of course. Is there any other thing? Does exist life in other planets?